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On the second week of April we headed out to Arizona for spring break. We landed in Phoenix and then headed to Tucson, where Quinn is living. When we arrived and it was 96°, but a dry 96! Ha! We rented an Airbnb in a neighborhood called the Catalina Foothills with a pool. The house was beautiful – maybe the nicest Airbnb we’ve stayed in. And the neighborhood was also amazing. Very southwest looking houses surrounded by beautiful mountains.

The girl standing in the front yard of our house.

On our first full day there, we did a two-hour horseback ride through the desert. We had a guide who led us and educated us about every possible cactus and plant in the desert. It was fun and very informative and our butts hurt for two days after.

After horseback riding we had lunch at a taco bar (the first of many) on the side of the road and then went to Segura National Park for a hike. It was beautiful and we were able to identify all of the cacti that we saw thanks to a guy that morning.

The next day we went to the Desert Museum, which is a museum all outside. They have all of the animals that live in the desert in their own enclosures so you can see them. We saw a mountain lion, javelinas, coyote, and a lot of different snakes and spiders, including an actual rattlesnake on a pathway that Sophie nearly stepped on. It was terrifying. It rattled its tail and slithered away quickly, thank goodness.

That afternoon we went to the colossal Cave, which is true to name, a huge cave that has not been fully explored yet. There had been electricity installed years ago, but a recent flood knocked it out, so we were given camping lanterns to walk around with.

Girls inside the Colossal Cave

The next day we left Tuscon and made a pit stop in Scottsdale where we met up with one of Dave’s former clients, Suzanna, who lives there. We rented bikes and explored the downtown. We of course had lunch at a taco bar (where else?) and then spent the afternoon at a beautiful botanical garden.

The botanical garden had a glass exhibit, so throughout the gardens were these amazing glass sculptures. The weather was amazing the entire day and the gardens were beautiful. It was one of my favorites things we did during the trip.

Family shot in front of one of the glass sculptures at the Botanical Gardens

That afternoon we left Scottsdale and drove to Pine, which was about a two hour drive. About half way through the drive we stopped seeing cactuses and started seeing pine trees. It was wild – like an entirely different state. We rented another Airbnb there that looked a lot like a ski lodge – a big A frame with huge windows looking out at the mountains. It was also much colder – down in the 30s at night. Quite a change.

Our house in Pine

The town of Pine was very small, with just a few restaurants, some shops and a grocery store. There were also Elk just walking around. When we stopped into the grocery store to grab some food to make dinner that night they were just hanging out in the parking lot. The grocery store clerk gave us an apple to feed them on the way out, so they definitely knew what they were doing.

Elk across the street from the grocery store

The next day we did three hikes. The first was a little disappointing – not a lot to see, mostly flat surface, the the “lake” we were hiking to ended up being just a small pond. After that, we followed signs to another trail head and that hike was much better, through the woods but also very steep. There was a fair amount of complaining involved with this one – from one child in particular who will remain anonymous.

The girls and Dave on one of the morning hikes

After that hike we went to lunch at the Creekside tavern, which was a cute log cabin building situated along a creek and part of a campground.

After refueling, we headed to Tonto Natural Bridge State Park where we did a combo hike down to the water / rock scramble. It was one of the most challenging hikes I’ve ever done – and the kids loved it! As long as there are obstacles to traverse and decisions to be made about which direction to go – they’re all about it. It took us about an hour to get from the top to the bottom, and was totally worth it. The natural bridge was above us and the pool of water underneath was beautiful. It’s hard to capture in pictures the true experience.

We also saw some cool animals including Javelina, White-Nosed Coati and even a tarantula!

Javelinas

The next day we were up bright and early and headed to Sonoma, which was about 90 minutes away. It was very cool driving along and suddenly seeing the red rocks start to pop up in the landscape. They’re breathtaking. Once we got to the national park it was super crowded – and hard to find parking spot. But once we did, we looked at all of the red rocks and decided which one to climb. We decided to try Bell Rock, which looked challenging, but also like we could get pretty close to the top. Both were correct. The girls enjoyed it because there was a fair amount of rock scrambling. Once we made it pretty far up the views were just incredible. It’s hard to capture it in pictures.

We spent about 2 hours climbing and enjoying the views and then headed into the town of Sonoma for lunch. This was probably the least favorite part of our trip. It was incredibly touristy. We sat in so much traffic and it was hard to find a parking space. And after all of that, our lunch was mediocre. We did have some pretty excellent homemade ice-cream at a little bakery afterward, which made us feel a lot better 😉

That evening Quinn joined us again and we ate dinner at the house and all slept like logs.

The next morning we were up early and headed to the Grand Canyon, which was about 2 hours away. I drove with Quinn because she was going to leave directly from there, and the girls went with Dave in the truck.

Our first stop was Grand Canyon helicopter tours. It was just the five of us and a pilot and we went for an hour-long ride over the canyon. It was wild. They gave us headphones that played music to coincide with the trip, which was a nice touch. Again, something that’s really hard to capture in pictures.

After we got back, we drove into Grand Canyon National Park where we had lunch at a little café restaurant and hit the enormous gift shop before heading to the Canyon. We walked for a while around the rim and then did a hike down into the Canyon. It was a crazy switchback pathway all the way down. We decided to walk for about 45 minutes down, knowing that coming back up was going to be about double that. It was very cool to hike down into it and we were right – coming back up with tough. But very worth it.

That afternoon we parted ways with Quinn and headed back to Pine, where we had our last dinner at a little wood fired pizza restaurant that was delicious.

The next morning we packed up and headed back to Phoenix to fly out.

This was definitely one of my favorite vacations. It was a packed week and hard to believe we did it all in just one state. I also loved the opportunity to hang out with Quinn for almost the whole week. I’m already thinking about when we can get back there!

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On March 2nd we celebrated Sophie’s 12th birthday! It was a Wednesday, so the Saturday before she had a slumber party with a few friends from school. We went out to Teppenyaki in our neighborhood, which was an idea that a lot of people had, because it was crazy crowded. We all smooshed around a table and were entertained and fed.

At Teppenyaki with her friends

Then we headed back to our house where we set up an ice cream sundae bar and the kids watched movies in the livingroom – while Dave, Lauren, and I all watched Encanto in the basement.

I’m not sure what time they were all asleep, but I did need to come down at 2AM to tell them to be quite. There were some very tired kids in the morning.

On her actual birthday the Sharps came over for dinner and cake. She opened presents – a skateboard and fleece from the Sharps, crop hoodie and fluffy pillow cases from my parents, Lauren made her a wall clock, and we got her a VR set that she’s been asking for for ages.

There were a lot of things that happened in Sophie’s 11th year – she started middle school, she got braces, she joined the school theater group, she joined the Gender and Sexuality Alliance at school, she sang the national anthem at an Eagles game, she (just) started going to school without a mast required. We’re looking forward to all that will come in year 12!

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Over the last two years we’ve traveled very little. We had the big spring break trip last spring, and lots of road trips to VA and MD, and now in the last two months we’ve gone to NY as a family, Dave and I went to Chicago for the weekend, and the we headed to FL for the long President’s Day weekend. I’m so happy to be moving around again, but it also feels strange. Over the last two years, we been in very few crowded places and standing or sitting less than six feet from another person has been “unsafe.” So to crowd onto a plane and sit nearly touching knees with strangers is a surreal experience. Anyway, that’s just what we did.

For Christmas, we decided to take my family for a trip, and found a great house on a little island off the west coast of Florida called North Captive. Apparently it used to be connected to a larger piece of land, Captiva, but a hurricane in 1921 separated the northern tip and it became it’s own island, with no paved roads, no cars, and just a few houses. Most of the island is a nature reserve.

We flew into Ft. Myers, then hired a van, and finally took a ferry to get to the little island where we picked up our golf cart for the weekend. It was only a four seater, so we had to take two trips from the ferry to the house to carry all the people and luggage, but fortunately it was only about a quarter mile away (as I said, small island).

The house was bright blue and had a heated outdoor pool and was also a short distance from the ocean. It was exactly what we needed to escape winter in February.

We arrived on a Friday, explored the island and bit and then headed to the beach. The weather was really foggy and cooler, in the 70s, but felt a little cooler because there was no sun. Dave and I had a long walk along the beach to check it out and the girls stayed with mom and dad to relax and play.

That night Dave cooked dinner for everyone at the house. Since there is no grocery story on the island, we had to have all of the food ordered and delivered before we arrived.

The rest of the weekend had amazing weather – warm and sunny. We spent more time at the beach and exploring the island. Dad’s favorite thing to do was the cruise around on the golf cart. The house also had a roof deck and mom mustered up her courage and walked up the metal spiral staircase to see it. She had made a deal with Becky – if she could confront her fear of flying, mom needed to confront her fear of heights. So overall, I would say they were both successful, if not super thrilled about either.

The Coughlin ladies!

Saturday night we went out to dinner at one of the three restaurants on the island called Barnacles.

On Sunday, Dave took the kids and Becky on a fishing trip. They had a blast and caught a lot of fish, but none big enough to keep. They also had a dolphin who swam alongside of the boat, hoping for some lunch to be thrown over the side. It’s the first time Ari has seen a dolphin, and she was thrilled.

While they were fishing, mom and dad biked around the island. They had bikes with huge tires so you can pedal on the sand. And I grabbed a kayak and went out to explore the area. Lots of birds, a few dolphin, and some nice quite time to myself!

We spent the rest of the day on the beach and watched the sunset.

On our final morning, Becky, Dave and I woke up before sunrise to hike out to the tip of the island – or as far as we could go. It was quite and beautiful and the perfect way to end the weekend (which we were all sad to see end). We walked along the beach as the sun was rising, and then moved to a trail that took us through the center of the island before ending up at the beach again.

The next time we go to North Captive, and I’m sure there will be a next time, we’ll stay for more than three days. It was such a nice, quite get away and I’m already looking forward to going back!

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For Christmas this year, we got the girls tickets to see Hamilton on Broadway. We were a little nervous about buying Broadway tickets since the theaters have intermittently shutdown because of COVID over the last year. But we figured we’d give it a go and fortunately there were no issues. We headed up on a very cold mid-January weekend. We decided to make a weekend of it and booked a hotel right off of Times Square.

She show did not disappoint. Even though we have all seen it about a dozen times on Disney+ with the original cast, it was still so good and different with new actors.

After the show, we walked around Times Square and had a sushi dinner. It’s the first time we’ve all been out in a restaurant in over a year, and it was a little weird, but also great.

The next day we had a lazy morning in the hotel and then hit the Guggenheim before heading back home. It was our first weekend away in a long time and it was really great. As I write this it seems as if the pandemic (or at least the initial, very long phase of it), is winding down and we’re finally able to move around a little more freely. I’m cautiously optimistic that things will continue to move in a positive direction.

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On January 12th Sophie got braces. In preparation, back in December she had 4 teeth pulled, 2 on the top and 2 on the bottom, to make room to push the front teeth back. The appointment was quicker than we expected – it only took about 30 minutes. She was excited for about 10 minutes afterward and since then has hated every minute of having them. Her mouth hurts and she keeps cutting the inside of her cheeks. On the upside, we’ve started including smoothies as a food group at home and both kids are happy about that. Only 18 months or so to go!

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On December 28th we celebrated Lauren’s 9th birthday! My family was still here, so we celebrated Lauren all day and then that night had a combined birthday celebration with Lauren and Ari, whose birthday is January 6th.

Lauren had an indoor climbing birthday at Philly Rock Gym. Since the party was on a Tuesday and between Christmas and New Years there were a lot of friends out of town. But even with a small crowd, Lauren had a great time.

That night the Sharps came over and we had pizza, chocolate cupcakes, and opened presents. Lauren’s favorite gift was moon bounce shoes from my mom.

Happy birthday to our sweet, funny, full of energy girl!

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The day after Christmas Sophie got to do something very cool. She, along with the Philadelphia Girls Choir, sang the National Anthem and the halftime show at the Eagles game against the NY Giants.

The girls were originally invited to sing just the National Anthem, but a few days before the game the halftime show cancelled, so they jumped in and did halftime as well! They sang Deck and Halls and Jingle Bells for that one.

We got tickets for Dave’s parents and my family to all go. We got great seats behind one of the field goals. The game was good, but of course the best part was the choir!

Lauren and I before the National Anthem

There was a lot going on down on the field when the girls sang the National Anthem. As the girls stood down on the field waiting to sing, all of the players ran on to the field through smoke and fireworks. Then the Eagles drum line played and everyone sang the fight song. It was a lot. Finally the girls sang and they were excellent! The stadium was quiet and erupted when they finished.

The choir singing the National Anthem

At half time the girls came back out on to the field and sang two Christmas carols. It was a little tougher because the stands were loud and their voices are so delicate. But they were all featured on the jumbotron and saw a few good closeups of Sophie because she was in the front row.

The choir singing at halftime

Despite winter hats in these pictures, the weather was unseasonably warm, no jackets necessary. We were incredibly lucky because the day after was 40 and raining. It was such a cool experience and everyone had a great time, most of all Sophie!

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Christmas is back! After essentially being cancelled last year, we were back in action this year. There was a slightly smaller crowd this year – all vaxxed and tested ahead of time – but we were all together!

Christmas morning came early – 3AM to be precise. We told the girls they couldn’t wake us up until 6AM, so they entertained themselves for three hours with stuff from their stockings. I can’t believe they woke up that early – or that there was not a huge crash that afternoon, which I really thought would happen.

When the girls came downstairs they both found exactly what they asked for under the tree.

After the morning of present opening and breakfast we cleaned up and prepped for the crowd coming later that day.

Calm before the storm

The Sharps, The Boyles, Don, Zoe and Maddie came from Dave’s side of his family, and Dan and family and Joan came from my side.

As tradition goes, we performed a Sharp Family concert before dinner. Sophie played Carol of the Bells and Lauren did Jingle Bells. Accompanists were Kathy on clarinet, Dave on trombone, me on violin, and for Jingle Bells, Kish and Ash joined in with bells.

Later that evening my parents, Becky and Ari came up – just in time for dessert. It was a lovely evening, mostly because we all were able to be together again!

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In December, both of the girls had their respective end of year performances/races.

Lauren did Girls in the Run this fall for the first time. She was extremely reluctant to try it (as she is with all new activities), but ended up loving it. She’s also a very strong runner, no surprises there. She had practice twice a week for about 2 months and then a celebratory 5K run. Each girl runs with a buddy so Dave was her running buddy. The day was beautiful and she did really well. Out of 600 girls she came in 10th!

Lauren’s Girls on the Run team

Later in December the Philadelphia Girls Choir had their holiday concerts. They did two this year – maybe to make up for not having any last year. The first was in a church in New Jersey and the second was at Temple Performing Arts Center. Both were amazing. Even though they had to sing with masks on, they still sounded amazing. This is also the first year that Sophie is performing with Cantata, the next group level up.

The first performance at a church in New Jersey
The second performance at Temple Performing Arts Center

Now we’re enjoying a few activity free weeks before everything starts up again in January

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The day after we got back from Virginia we headed to Yaeger’s Farm to cut down a tree. When we went last year there weren’t a lot of trees, but this year was a bit better. We found one pretty quickly and the girls both took a shot at cutting it down before Dave ended up doing it.

That evening the Sharps, Zoe and Maddie came over to help us decorate the tree.

A few days later I did a photoshoot with the girls to attempt to get a good one for our Christmas card. Here are some of the outtakes.

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